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griselle

Picture of The Day

The Wonderful time I had with my sister in Florida early this year!

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griselle

Weekend Recap

Hello Lovies,

I hope everyone had a great long weekend! My re-cap was Thanksgiving day, I watched the parade with my kids... It felt good to just lay on the couch, drinking coffee and watching the wonderful Macy's Parade, later on in the day, we headed to my uncles house where i came together with my family, we blessed the food ate then just talked the night away, as for the rest of the weekend, well I didn't do much a side from getting the hair done, and having family come over for game night Saturday night. One thing I did out of the ordinary was go to church, I never took the time to go and listen to gods words, I have decided to change my religion, I used to be Catholic and now I am Christian, I loved the church the people were so friendly and amazing they took time to meet me and talk to me, they sure made me feel welcomed!

Here are 5 Things that I am Thankful:

1. My family
2. Our health
3. That everyday we are blessed to have food on our table
4. This Country
5. That we are alive today

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griselle

Better Day !Tip Of The Day

A Better Day!

There are certain things I never leave my house with out: My handbag, make-up, magazine, PDA and for the past year or two I don't leave with out a notebook, I have turned into a note taker, and a list maker. therefore a good notebook is always with-in reach.

I have realize, by writting and taking notes, not only will this help organized yourself but in some ways than other, it is a peace-maker, in which helps my day to day stress. As a mother and a wife with a busy schedule, my everyday life can get hectic to say the least, therefore; to stay organized and focused, I write everything down. The notebookI am currently using is a 3d demention with a fashion lady looking at herself in a hand held mirror, this not only adds glamour, beauty and sexyness to my day but inspires my thoughts, plans and dreams that are a part of living a beautiful life. Self Esteem!

I recommend people to do the same, this really helps!

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griselle

What I am Loving Today

Pajamas can also be sexy. I love this romper tomboy sexy pj, I own a few of them from different brands and I love it, so does my husband he tells me I look sexy in them.

Holiday Jenna Romper

by Steve Alan

Holiday Crossback Nighty

by Steven Alan

Honestly not always do we go to bed with the sexiest lingerie on, I mean, in my case I don't always wear them however; i am a true believer that one must go to bed feeling comfortable and sexy, not only if you have a partner should you be sexy but even if you are going to bed alone... One of the best feelings is going to be pretty and sexy for some reason I tend to have a good night sleep when i am feeling pretty and sexy! Here are a few pictures of the pajamas that I am loving today. I have 3 drawers in my house just full of sexy lingerie and pajamas of all kinds but what I have found my self wearing a lot of theses days, are very similar to the pictures above.

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griselle

Stress Management Relaxation Techniques

Happy Monday Lovies,

Thanksgiving is this week, which means lots of family events, shopping and celebrating Holidays, hosting, traveling and the list goes on. I know how stressful this can be, as a result of the Holiday stress combines with our everyday stress I have researched several techniques to help me with my every day stress and holiday stress as well. Below are 10 techniques I put together to share with you all, I hope you can all put this to good use I know I am trying. Enjoy and Happy Stress Free Holidays.

10 Relaxation Techniques To Reduce Stress On-the-Spot

If your hectic lifestyle has got you down, experts say relaxation techniques can bring you back into balance -- some in five minutes or less.

1. Meditate

If you're thinking meditation means twisting your body into an uncomfortable position and uttering "oohs" and "omms" for an hour, guess again. This includes walking, swimming, painting, knitting -- any activity that helps keep your attention calmly in the present moment.

When you catch yourself thinking about your job, your relationship or your lifelong to-do list, experts say to simply let the thought escape, and bring your mind back the repetition of the activity. Try it for just 5 to 10 minutes a day and watch stress levels drop.

2. Picture Yourself Relaxed

Is your mind too talkative to meditate? Try creating a peaceful visualization, or "dreamscape." To start, simply visualize anything that keeps your thoughts away from current tensions. It could be a favorite vacation spot, a fantasy island, that penthouse in New York City -- or something "touchable," like the feel of your favorite silk robe or cozy sweater.

The idea is to take your mind off your stress, and replace it with an image that evokes a sense of calm. The more realistic your daydream -- in terms of colors, sights, sounds; even touch and feel -- the more relaxation you'll experience.

3. Breathe Deeply

Feeling stressed evokes tense, shallow breathing, while calm is associated with relaxed breathing, So to turn tension into relaxation, he says, change the way you breathe.

Try this: Let out a big sigh, dropping your chest, and exhaling through gently pursed lips. Now imagine your low belly, or center, as a deep, powerful place. Feel your breath coming and going as your mind stays focused there. Inhale, feeling your entire belly, sides and lower back expand. Exhale, sighing again as you drop your chest, and feeling your belly, back and sides contract. Repeat 10 times, relaxing more fully each time.

4. Look Around You

"Mindfulness is the here-and-now approach to living that makes daily life richer and more meaningful," It's approaching life like a child, without passing judgment on what occurs. Mindfulness means focusing on one activity at a time, so forget multi-tasking! Staying in the present-tense can help promote relaxation and provide a buffer against anxiety and depression.

Practice it by focusing on your immediate surroundings. If you're outdoors, enjoy the shape and colors of flowers, hear a bird's call or consider a tree. In the mall, look at the details of a dress in the window, examine a piece of jewelry and focus on how it's made, or window-shop for furniture, checking out every detail of pattern and style. As long as you can keep your mind focused on something in the present, stress will take a back seat.

5. Drink Hot Tea

If you're a coffee-guzzler, consider going green. Coffee raises levels of the notorious stress hormone, cortisol, while green tea offers health and beauty.

Chamomile tea is a traditional favorite for calming the mind and reducing stress. And black tea may be a stress-fighter, too, researchers from University College London report. Participants who drank regular black tea displayed lower levels of cortisol, and reported feeling calmer during six weeks of stressful situations than those who drank a placebo with the same amount of caffeine.

6. Show Some Love

Induce the relaxation response by cuddling your pet, giving an unexpected hug to a friend or family member, snuggling with your spouse, or talking to a friend about the good things in your lives, says psychologist Deborah Rozman, PhD, co-author of Transforming Stress. When you do, you'll be reducing your stress levels.

Why? Experts say social interaction helps your brain think better, encouraging you to see new solutions to situations that once seemed impossible, she says. Studies have also shown that physical contact -- like petting your dog or cat -- may actually help lower blood pressure and decrease stress hormones.

7. Try Self-Massage

When your muscles are tense and you've no time to visit a pro, try this simple self-massage technique from Darrin Zeer, author of Lover's Massage and Office Yoga. Relax, and travel straight to Zen-land.

Place both hands on your shoulders and neck.

Squeeze with your fingers and palms.

Rub vigorously, keeping shoulders relaxed.

Wrap one hand around the other forearm.

Squeeze the muscles with thumb and fingers.

Move up and down from your elbow to fingertips and back again.

Repeat with other arm.

8. Take a Time-Out

Adults need time-outs, too. So when you sense your temper is about to erupt, Jeff Brantley, MD, author of Five Good Minutes In the Evening, suggests finding a quiet place to sit or lie down and put the stressful situation on hold. Take a few deep breaths and concentrate on releasing tension and calming your heartbeat. Quiet your mind and remember: Time is always on your side, so relax. The stress can wait.

9. Try a Musical Detour

Music can calm the heartbeat and soothe the soul, the experts say. So, when the going gets rough, take a musical stress detour by aligning your heartbeat with the slow tempo of a relaxing song. And you might want to make that a classical tune. Research shows that listening to 30 minutes of classical music may produce calming effects equivalent to taking 10 mg of Valium.

10. Take an Attitude Break

Thirty seconds is enough time to shift your heart's rhythm from stressed to relaxed, Rozman says. The way to do that: Engage your heart and your mind in positive thinking. Start by envisioning anything that triggers a positive feeling -- a vision of your child or spouse, the image of your pet, that great piece of jewelry you're saving up to buy, a memento from a vacation -- whatever it is, conjuring up the thought will help slow breathing, relax tense muscles and put a smile on your face. Rozman says that creating a positive emotional attitude can also calm and steady your heart rhythm, contributing to feelings of relaxation and peace.

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griselle

Styles That I Love

Styles That I Love, I always say and think that because you are a mom, you don't have to make your self look old and abandon, I am a true believer that one should always try to look their best specially if you are a young modern mother. Ladies, if by any chance you are feeling over weight and maybe not so pretty.... well here is my own personal tip, get back on that wagon, it is ok to feel like this; only okay if we are going to do something regarding the negative issue, if you are feeling over weight... then girl get up (well after reading this blog that is :) start working out and set goals! I know at times it is easier said then done trust me I know, i have put up a few pounds my self due to some stress, however I have decided that i will lose the pounds and feel sexy and pretty. Below are a few celebrity pictures of styles I love, I am not saying lets be someone we are not but lets find our own style or lets guide ourselves from trendsetters. You can put your own style together the importance is to feel good and look good, In my spiritual techniques tips, I say you transmit the vibe of the mood you are in. NOW LETS LOOK FABULOUS!

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griselle

In Love With My Boots

My husband bought me these boots this past week and I can say that I am in love with them, not only are they comfortable but stylish too. I am in love with these Chinese Laundry Boots. I love the way they look over the knee flats.

It`s here! The latest version of our classic over the knee style boot. The small boot heel and elastic gore backing ensure this will be the boot to wear from day to night all season long. You can tuck in your skinny jeans or throw them on with a mini and be ready for just about any occasion. 22` shaft height, 17 1/2` circumference.

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griselle

Magazine Covers That I am Loving

Kourtney Kardashian, after becoming a mom she has been one of hollywoods favorites. I love her fashion, trend setting ways, she is beautiful and her little bundle of joy Mason si adorable. This cover was done for Baby Talk Magazine, Kourtney talks about her first year of motherhood. Love it.

Scarlett Johanson, whom I thinks is beautiful, she is one of my favorites actress and not only do I love her acting but she is georgous and humble.

Miranda Kerr , Who looks absolutly amazing pregnant. I love this cover.
The Victoria’s Secret model (the first pregnant model to grace the cover of Vogue Australia) showed off her baby bump and talked about her desire to always remember her pregnancy.

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griselle

Weekend Recap

Weekend Recap

I had a great last week. I met my sister in law and the cousins. I absolutely loved them, they were amazing. My husband sister lives in Holland in which I can't wait to go visit, and his cousin lives in Texas another place we are looking forward to visiting. I must say I had an amazing time, they are so much fun and down to earth it was great. We did a lot of New York shopping in which i loved because I also shopped for clothes and shoes. Above are a few pictures of the family. I miss them. We went out to eat everyday, and the last night I made a Restaurant type of dinner for them with classical music a beautiful table with candles lid. I will post more pictures of the family visit soon.


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griselle

Fur Booties

I am loving the major fall trend of fur booties. Whether real or faux, designers of all levels have added fuzzy boots to their fall lineup. I have been obsessing over the Christian Louboutin “Toundra” fur bootie. Forever 21 has the faux fur pair, I mean I wouldnt buy it but if you are intreseted you may find it there. What makes this version so great is the color and texture of the faux fur as well as the details it has taken from its higher priced partner: strap and buckle details, the chunky platform pointy toe, and a great shaped sexy heel. A fantastic take on a high-end look. So, tell us—would you wear this trend? I can't wait to buy me a pair. Christian Louboutin “Toundra” fur bootie, $2,095, Bergdorf Goodman; 2. Faux fur bootie, $32.80, Forever 21.

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griselle

Teaching Our Children Common Courtesy

As parents with busy schedules and always on the run, sometimes we forget to teach our kids the importance of mannerisms and how important is to have etiquette. I am very clear on how kids should be kids, however; there is a fine line on allowing the kid to play and do things they need to do and teaching them respect and etiquette. Kids don't have to be perfect because we are clear that they are kids, but if as parents we teach them the importance of courtesy, some where down the line in their future they can and will be educated, well spoken young adults. The reason why I want to write this blog and post this was because I was having a conversation with my cousin yesterday and we were discussing on how some children don't behave or can't even eat at a table with out sucking each finger and using their hands, and eating as if there was no tomorrow... here is my thing, the food on the table will not go anywhere, therefore; eat slow as parents and we allow this then this is how they will grow up and this is what they will be eating as older kids, I know this I have seen a 12 year old doing this and the parent approached me by saying how embarrassed they were, because their child is not well behaved in public, and how this kid was eating...Well guess what, this is not the child's fought this is strictly the parents issue for allowing their child to grow up eating as if there is no tomorrow or allowing them to eat with their hands in public. DON'T BE EMBARRASSED if you allowed this since day one.
Below are some etiquette points that we can teach our kids. By no means is this post saying i am the best mom or anything for that matter, because there is no such thing i am just trying to teach my kids a way of life and sharing them with you all, these are just some tips on how we can better our children.. due to some real senerials of people i know, i have decided to write this post.
Greetings - A proper greeting shows confidence and maturity. Teach your child to address people they meet by Mr. Mrs etc. Making eye contact is an important etiquette too. It is common courtesy to say good morning or good evening, in my case my 2 kids do not go to bed with out saying good night to each other and to me.
Eating - Teaching your child how to eat properly can save you from future embarrassments. I taught my kids how to eat when sitting in a table alone, or with others. When to use a knife to cut your meat and how to eat with your utensils. I know someone who went to eat with his son and came back saying how embracing it was when his child at 11 years of age was eating with his fingers and licking his fingers at a restaurant (we can prevent this from happening if we teach them).
Please and Thank You- These two phrases are still valuable today and their use shows a person has manners more than anything else. In order to teach these words as a parent you must use them yourself (and remind your kids about a million times). Talk to your child about why please and thank you are important. Everyone likes to be appreciated, "'Please' can turn a demand into a request and indicates an option it can save Now and turn an unpopular request into a more palatable one."
Excuse Me- This is a valuable phrase that is used too little. Besides saying "excuse me" after public bodily functions there are many other times when "excuse me" should be used. Such as when a person walks through a crowded room, bumps into someone, walks in front of someone, needs to leave a group, or needs to ask a question.
Not Interrupting- Nothing shows bad manners more than a child who runs up to his parent in mid conversation and begins speaking. Teach your child that when you or anyone else is talking that they must wait until a break in the conversation before interrupting. Teach your child the right etiquette using a signal, such as raising one finger, to show that you acknowledge them and will listen in a moment. Then be sure to stop and listen to your child. Parents that "the mother who invariably stops and says, 'What is it, dear?' when her daughter interrupts is helping her to establish a habit that will do her a disservice all her life."

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griselle

Picture Of The Day

Picture Of The Day.

How was your halloween? As for me we had a great time, I took my kids out for a few hours with other moms, whom i know and live in my town. It was great... The picture above was taken by me, and I just had to post this because this was so cute, my son fixed the table with the candies that we gave out. Aww I love my children and wish they can stay this age forever.

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griselle